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December 19, 2004
Holiday Shopping
Yesterday, my friend Tony & I went shopping at the Lancaster Outlets in Lancaster, PA. It was a nice little outing, and gave us time to spend with other considering that we haven't spent much time together. I had fun. We walked from store to store just looking at stuff. I was trying to find my grandmother a really nice gift. Tony was picking out something nice for his girlfriend.
The outlets were packed. We had no choice but to walk store to store or take the trolley around because if we moved from our parking spot chances are that we would've had issues finding another one. I didn't find anything that I wanted to buy for my grandmother, so I ended up wasting money on myself. I bought myself some Curve perfume, and I bought an Eagles sweatshirt from the Eagle Zone. It was too cold to stay out too long.
Tony bought his girlfriend some things, and we decided to head down to the Tanger outlets down the road from Rockvale. I needed a new pair of Timberlands, so I didn't mind. Going into the Timberland store was a disaster. It was packed with people. Tony became upset with some guy when he pushed us both out of his way. I was like "I think we need to bounce". We left the Timberland store, and headed to this kitchen store where I purchased a George Foreman grill for my brother, and I bought a Crock Pot for my aunt.
After shopping, we went to have dinner at Fuddruckers. Tony and I had a competition going as to who would finish eating first. He ordered a 1 pound burger and spotted me 2 bites on my 1/3 Turkey burger. He still beat me. He's greedy like that. After dinner, we headed back to Delaware. During the return drive home, we had a chance to talk more. We talked about life, music, relationships & other stuff.
We started to talk about his girlfriend. I wanted to know why he didn't invite her to come along. He made up some excuse about not wanting her to see the gift he bought. Ok cool. He began asking me questions about past relationships. He says, "Why did you tell the dude in the Nike outlet that I was your brother?" My response was, "Because you are my brother." He didn't say much else. I did all the talking for the next 15 minutes. Then, out of the blue, he asks, "Have you ever thought of us as more than friends?" I was shocked. I didn't know how to respond, and I was stumbling over my words.
When I gathered myself, I told him that I've never thought of him as more than a friend. I've always considered him as a brother. We've been friends since like forever. Anything other than friendship never crossed my mind. He says, "I don't mean to put you on the spot, but do you think that we could ever be more than friends? You know that I like you. Don't look at me like that. You know."
I didn't know what to say. I tried to piece together a response. I told him that I'd have to think about that whole "more than friends" thing. I'm not ready to wrap my mind around that concept. I can't jump into a relationship with my best guy friend. I'd break his heart. He told me to think about it. I told him that I would. I quickly ended that conversation and changed the subject.
When we arrived back in Delaware, we did some more shopping. We were going to call some friends & ask if they wanted to go to the movies, but nothing of interest was playing. So instead, we opted to play ESPN Football 2k5 on XBox. Tony has an XBox in his car, so he pulled into a parking lot & we played the game. While in the car, the windows were getting foggy. People were driving past, looking at us. Tony said, "Hold up. This doesn't look right." I agreed and wiped the windows off. This one guys (probably an undercover) walked over to us and asked if were ok. When I rolled down the window, he saw that were playing the game. He laughed and walked off. From that point on, I kept the windows down. I'm trying to avoid the appearance of evil...you know?
Overall, I had a fun day. I came home and crashed. What a day.
Posted by Timi at December 19, 2004 12:56 PM
Comments
lol, yeh i'm sure that did look questionable with the steamy windows. sooo, you think he's not gonna bring that convo up again don't you? lol, don't count on it.
Posted by: Sivad at December 20, 2004 4:48 PM
i hope you purchased me something from all this shopping.
Posted by: lashundra at December 20, 2004 5:12 PM
damn u failed to mention he has a girlfriend. Heffa! Anywho my advise is dont do it. Girl once you cross the line you cannot, i repeat CANNOT go back.
Finally yall are to the stupidest people, playing x-box in the car, dont u know this the prime time for robbing folks. Look in the paper and see all the murders in the last 2 weeks. Dont do that again. I forgive you lol but seriously, dont.
Posted by: Ty at December 20, 2004 6:19 PM
Yeah ditto on lashundra's comment. I prefer cash..thx
Posted by: Erin at December 20, 2004 6:28 PM
Hmmm Why did he wait so long to ask you what your feelings were about the two of you? How long has he felt this way? You sure you haven't seen the signs? Now that you had the time to think about it what will you tell him? And most inportant in this interview, what did you get me for X-Mas?
Art4Soul's Enquiring Minds Magazine@pixelfx.net LOL!!! Take it EZ Timi
Posted by: Art4SouL at December 20, 2004 7:07 PM
Talk about being put on the spot, lol! I'm with you, what about his girl?
Posted by: Laniza at December 21, 2004 4:37 PM
dang. he really put you on the spot and forgot about his girlfriend really quick. if my friend did that to me i would have smacked me.
lol and you guys playing xbox.
dude man i never see you on yahoo.
Posted by: gabi at December 21, 2004 6:41 PM